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WHAT ARE SUCCESSFUL COUPLES DOING RIGHT?
The reality is that all couples face issues with priorities, money, trust, and many other components of a successful relationship. Successful couples are those who figure out a way to deal with their issues, in a constructive way; and .. unsuccessful ones are those who fail to do so.
BUT WHAT COULD BE CAUSING THESE PROBLEMS?
UNCONSCIOUS BIAS
Most of the problems that couples face today are caused by the conflicts that we encounter because of unconscious bias. We all have our own individual preferences and values which are perfectly normal and acceptable to all of us. What we many times do not realize is that everybody else has their own preferences and values, and that they generally are not the same as ours. In a relationship those differences are one of the fundamental causes of problems and failure.
DO YOU KNOW WHAT IS IMPORTANT FOR YOUR PARTNER?
There are eight fundamental components of a relationship.
Successful couples are those who know their individual preferences, their partner preferences
and know how to address the differences they may have.
Communication
Have you ever been called (or have you called someone) .. Insensitive?Romanticism
Are you a romantic person? Is your partner a romantic person?Work or Family?
Is your partner happy with the amount of time you put at work?Authority
Do you need to be always in control?Is your partner OK with that?
Trust and Security
Jealousy and insecurity are not always justified, but still can be there if we don't understand our partner's behavior.Money Management
Do you like to make it and spend it.. Do you prefer to save it?People Orientation
Do you like to be surrounded by friends and family, or to be on your own?Achieving your Goals
Do you like to set goals?Or do you prefer to play it "by ear" and see what happens?
DO YOU WANT TO HAVE A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP?
Have you seen a successful couple interacting? Does it seems that they can read each other minds? Their secret is communication!
BUT COMMUNICATION IS NOT SOMETHING WE LEARN IN SCHOOL.
Every couple is unique, and is the result of the specific combination of their individual preferences in the eight components of a successful relationship.
Because of that reason, what we learned with a previous partner, may or may not work with the current one; and that's why so many people find it so difficult to communicate in a relationship.
That's why we developed the:
COMMUNICATION MANUAL FOR COUPLES
The Kalorel™ Communication Manual for Couples can:
- Help you and your partner learn what are your own personal preferences in the eight components of a successful relationship.
- Compare you and your partner preferences and identify the three major differences between the two of you.
- Generate a customized report for each one of you that identifies your preferences, the three major differences, and provides suggestions about how to deal with them.
AND THE QUESTION IS, DOES IT WORK?
"It's already been working miracles..."
"What we really liked about the report was how it allowed us to learn different things about each other in a different perspective. It got us talking immediately on we were more most compatible and we found the results to be surprisingly accurate.
Being more aware of where we disconnect allowed us to take a step back and reevaluate how we should go about solving the problems that arise between us. "It's already been working miracles"
"I really enjoyed being able to see in what areas we were more compatible and where we were completely different. The diagram was almost like a guideline on how we could better overcome problems and communicate more effectively."
ARE YOU READY TO HAVE THE RELATIONSHIP YOU DESERVE?
